Sunday, May 6, 2012

Life's Hard Lessons

Over the past several years, it feels like nothing goes according to plan for my family. Vanessa has endured soccer tryout disappointments year after year and continues to deal with lingering symptoms from a brain injury suffered during a “friendly” soccer scrimmage. More recently, Jake suffered the embarrassment of not being placed on any of team during baseball tryouts. For me personally, it has been five years now of working through the disappointment of an “organizational change.” Thankfully, I am employed and able to provide for my family but the circumstances surrounding my job change were less than desirable. Since then, I have gone through many ups and downs as I try to make sense of my circumstances. I have asked myself many times, “What does God want me to learn?” Certainly, I have eaten a big helping of “humble pie” and so has my family. So, why do we continuously suffer through the same disappointments?

Each time, as we approach another potentially disappointing situation, we go to God and ask[1] but we rarely get what we are asking for. Of course, we end each of those prayers with the customary “your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.”[2] So once again, why do we continuously suffer through the same disappointments? Have we still not learned the life lesson? Or is there something else God is trying to tell us?

Maybe, just maybe, we are asking for the wrong things. As I was thinking about all of this recently, the story of Jonah came to mind for me. I know there are many differences between my circumstances and the story of Jonah but hear me out. God asked Jonah to complete a task, what exactly he was supposed to do is irrelevant to my point. The point is Jonah was not doing what God asked him to do so God controlled the circumstances surrounding Jonah until he eventually started following God’s plan for him.  There are two main differences between the story of Jonah and my family. First, Jonah knew exactly what God wanted him to do. Second, Jonah intentionally ran away from God’s plan for him. As far as me and my family goes, it feels like we need to answer the first question first… What exactly is God’s plan for us? There’s only one way to find out, going to God first and waiting on Him for answers.

[1] Matthew 7:7-11 Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!
[2] Matthew 6:9-10 “This, then, is how you should pray: Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.”

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

WORDS OF WISDOM FROM MY DAD


God's love is… 
  1. Demonstrated – John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”
  2. Who is loved – Psalms 37:28 “For the Lord loves the just and will not forsake his faithful ones…”
  3. Unfailing – Psalms 26:3 “For I have always been mindful of your unfailing love and have lived in reliance on your faithfulness.”
  4. Dimensions of His love – Psalms 57:10 “For great is your love, reaching to the heavens; your faithfulness reaches to the skies.”
  5. Unending – Psalms 103:17 “But from everlasting to everlasting the Lord’s love is with those who fear Him and his righteousness with their children’s children.”
  6. God's delight – Psalms 147:11 “The Lord delights in those who fear him, who put their hope in his unfailing love.”
  7. Circumstances – Romans 8:39 “Neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Because of His love, I can believe:
  • Matthew 7:7, Luke 11: 9- 13 “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”

Because of His love, I can expect:
  • Ephesians 3:20 “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.”

Because of His love, I can receive:
  • 1 John 5:14-15 “This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. 15 And if we know that he hears us – whatever we ask – we know that we have what we asked of him.” 
  • Matthew 7:11 “If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!”

He loves me not because of who I am, what have done or what I didn't do but because of my relationship with Him, I'm his son/daughter!  My love for Him doesn't reach the dimension of His love for me nor can it till we see Him face to face, maybe then we will be able to understand more fully what His love for us really means...  Understanding His love for me helps me trust him and have faith in His promises.